What kind of heart, grace, and character does your spouse’s family have? Are you thinking about getting married, or remarrying? If so, please consider also the spiritual guidelines, moral standards, virtues, values, principles, grace and power, which facilitate the anointing for the manifestation of divine strength, kindness, mercy, blessings, and protection in the union.
I learned that a man’s riches, power, abilities, skills, and knowledge, as well as his strength, anointing, and resources, among many other influences, have an effect on his way of life, home, family, respect, rule, and reign in life.
The respectability of his earnings, wealth, and prosperity in all areas of his life—spiritually, materially, financially, educationally, socially, and so forth—are likewise impacted by the presence, covenants and atmospheres on his spouse, and vice versa.
And these are the three main elements for the devaluation or enhancement of lives, lifestyles and homes:
1. The residence/house you dwell in,
2. The people and land that are offered to you and,
3. The husband or wife whom you choose to marry (2 Samuel 12 vs 8).
So, please choose the right path to divine and human enlightenment, which offers best protocols and knowledge for relationships and marriage before making a social and/or sexual decision. And, remember that certain choices are made and sealed on either husbands or wives, known or unknown, depending on what affects, controls and/or governs the spouse’s spirit and soul.
Therefore, in proceeding to integrate a platonic relationship into an amorous one, and progressively into marriage, please be watchful, prayerful and inquisitive to develop into the inherent blessing deposited in you, as you wisely and assiduously seek to become the person, that you, your family and your community need you to be.
But to get it right and well, there are probable answers you must deduced from yours and other people’s experiences, encounters and challenges, then inquire and receive from the Heavenly and the Earthly realms through your prayer and prophetic towers, altars, platforms and covenants.
For Instance, WHAT KIND OF SOUL DO YOU OR YOUR SPOUSE HAVE, WHAT IS EMBEDDED IN THE RESPECTIVE SOULS, AND WHICH, HOW AND WHY DO HE OR SHE HAVE THEIR KIND OF SOUL?
My dear friend, I was inspired to write this particular monologue when a young lady, who is having social, marital and maybe spiritual challenges in certain aspects of her life, relationships and marriage asked me a very intriguing question.
Again, I met another young lady and in our conversation, she wanted to know answers to this question – “what is embedded in my soul?”. I thus set out to ask her questions as well and find the right answers by the grace of God. I ask myself this question as quoted above as the heading of my subject in this write-up.
By integating aspects into this piece, let me quote and begin my submission by stating that I found out that souls do not die. They live forever and are seated in their heavenly places, by their spirits, under the word of the LORD’s Command, when created by God and especially when they are redeemed, by their souls, from light affliction whiles on earth. Souls are influenced by the collective actions of other souls in their families, by marriage, covenants, agreements and so forth.
And for all intents and purposes, souls are chosen by Creation for the various languages, tribes, people and nations on earth with their divine purpose(s) for which they are created into mortality, conceived as babies and received on earth and named as human beings.
Note that there are other souls in this world but by the selection of the Creator God – Jehovah, the souls of human beings are superior and filled with destinies, purposes and the reasons for their purposes, anointing and graces for which heavenly enablements for great accomplishment in their inherent spirits (Isa 11 vs 2) are tangibly felt when activated.
Souls are descended from the Heavenly realms into families on earth to carry out certain divine and special assignments and purposes of their Creator God. And, if a soul sins, err or goes astray on the purpose, the He-Soul or She-Soul can still have and receive atonement, redemption and/ or restitution in its inner being in order to attain its God-given eternal life and purpose (Rev 5 vs 9).
And why so? I found out that apart from the eternal life by which the soul does not perish on earth (John 3 vs 16), the thoughts, behavior and actions of people’s power, might and even the accounts of their sustenance and the manifested greatness of their glory, honour and anointings into their realms of life is also premised on the divine nature in that person to achieve his or her intents and purposes so as to bless others.
I therefore realised that whether rich or poor, in sorrow or in happiness, in material possessions or not, married or not married, healthy or not and so on, it is very important to ascertain the purpose of your presence and function on earth in order to accept the necessary heart amd mandate conditions for one’s pursuit and contentment.
Secondly it is important to be prayerful and mindful of (Phil 4 vs 8) and very careful to also seek the good of your people, neighbours and prepare for your heavenly heritage as well as to render peace and prosperity to your progeny and family (Est 10 vs 1-3).
What kind of soul do you have? What is embedded in that soul? And what are its SWOT to your heaven-bound journey from earth when you are done with the worship of the Creator God while on earth.
Human body, Human soul and Human spirit have their various strength, weakness, opportunities of care and ownerships as well as the threats to their sanity, rest, safety, fulfilment, peace of mind, successes, victories and establishment. Thus a soul’s role and importance in the life of any person is as crucial as ensuring that a balloon containing a valuable substance is not pierced by a sharpened pin.
Though every soul can be hurt or made happy, the soul of man can be kept intact in its body by the spirit of that person. And it is of key divine instruction that every soul and his or her spirit must interact with its mortality and its humanity of various human beings as they live on earth. Nevertheless there are differences among them during the interactives or instances, every soul and the allocated spirit(s) also has its realms, structures, anointing, dimensions, levels, nature, characters and even forms for its activities, responsibilities and duties so that it can operate as ordained by the Creator God.
Souls can think, expect and have intention and desires. They have natures, feelings, shapes and forms. And ordinarily, they dwell peacefully for their God-assigned jobs by the disciplines of their virtues, values and vocations.
Some souls are birth with their certificates of assignment as apostles, prophets, teachers, evangelist, pastors, engineers, pharmacists, administrators, farmers, mothers, fathers, politicians, warriors, investors, inventor, wise, wealthy, pioneer, greatness, heads of states and the likes just as much as some souls are either born desperately wicked or made cunning, crafty, troublemakers, confusion inducers and so on of their likes in negativities through parenthood, mentorship, apprenticeship, associations and through governance and observation.
Google states that “your soul is your innermost being and helps to define who you really are. Your soul will take on one of seven roles, the names given to these roles are the Priest, Server, Artisan, Warrior, King, Sage, and Scholar”.
Souls have roles. And indeed, souls have varying personalities and behaviours. However souls interact with other souls just as much as their spirits can grow in strength when facilitated and can subdue the spirits of other souls. Deuteronomy 4:29 says that – “But if from there, you seek the Lord your God, you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul”
My dear friend, souls of humans seek many things, marriages, and even the affection of divinity and humanity.
Human souls like, many other kinds, love to care and to be cared for. Such souls love to rest in safety and peace too (Psalms 4 vs 8). This is why the Lord says: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’” (Psalm 42:11)
There are many desires, functions and attributes of souls but one certainty is this- Souls love to increase in glory and honour so that they can ascribe, offer and render their sacrifices of praise and thanksgiving to their Creator God and to their helpers (Matthew 16:26, Psalm 62:1, Jeremiah 6:16).
I found out that Life is indeed a mystery of God’s will (Ephesians2 vs 7-9). And even for those who claim not to believe that the Creator God, the Heavenly Father exists, life’s own designed protocols within tangible and intangible happenings of life often lead such persons to find the source of Creation and the person of Life as others others know and have experienced him; His name is also called Jehovah.
And though the soul and spirit aspect of our life may not be tangibly felt and/or experienced by many people, their bodies often truly manifest realities of divine and anointed presence when they experience the inherent happening from the soul and spirit interactions. And if one is sensitive to spiritual matters, that person can enjoy more grace.
I also found out that human souls by their consciences like to be in right standings with Creation, to be in line with orders and protocols and to be in accor8dance with righteousness and its Godly consciences as stated in my five Book series – The Reason for The Purpose.
Interestingly, the mind of the soul like like to possess and own safety, astuteness and righteousness. That is why Scriptures says that “May your whole spirit, soul and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus” (I Thessalonians 5:23).
Additionally, I have found out many things and certain revelations about human souls. And among these, aside the aforementioned, human souls can have the following characteristics:
1. Souls like to relate and stay united together in marriage with her Lord and with his helpmeet.…
2. Souls are created and made Male and Female. And they carry allocated greatness of assignments and destinies in their spirits.
3. Souls are zealous; seeking to know, and are ambitious and jealous.
4. In the spirit realms, souls can be infinitesimal or colossal in size, and they can be inhabited by uncountable number of spirits; spirits of God’s Presence or by demon spirits.
5. Souls grow in the anointings of their graces and within the dimensions of the Spirit of God as granted to them ( Isaiah 11 vs 2).
6. Souls have personalities, attributes and characters which can be transformed within their natures.
7. Souls have intuitions and discernment from which they can receive promptings, alert and sensitivities.
8. Souls have renewable minds which can do exponential activities. And they can develop the mental faculties of their brain to create, innovate and improve on the audacities of their habitations, dwellings, and improve on their adaptability to change and innovation
9. Souls have emotions, integrity and intelligence. They have ideas, intentions and thoughts that even Satan can not know unless these are spoken out.
10. Souls are inquisitive, can only marry on earth. They may be wicked or not depending on how it has been converted, subdued, and dominated.
Talking about the manners and behaviours of the human souls and even how their minds work, how certain things happen to even good natured persons, I have a new orientation to another divine truth. And it is about what certain souls can contain in their afflictions, troubles and issues in life encounters.
So, kindly hear me. There are secrets about you and your family tree which you must know (Hebrews 6 vs 1 – , Eph 1 vs 7-9, Rom 16 vs 25-27) just as much as you can find more than the elementary doctrines of the Scriptures when you study more of the Word of God.
In Spirituality, there is a maturity stage whereby knowledgeable people move into greater levels in the dimensions of their anointing, prayers and revelations. And here, *the truth of the whys, how, whats and which of the happenings and events* into one’s life, family, marriage and other matters can divinely be revealed and explained.
If you have discovered some deep family stories, then you will agree on this – some mysteries are kept secrets for ages even in families of tribes and people. But assuredly, these must be discovered if one wants to enjoy the various joys in life as well as the obedience of Faith and Godliness in life’s ambitions, businesses and cares.
Of a certainty, the soul carries the personality of any human being. And there are strong souls and weak souls, based on the strength of their characters, and of their anointings, grace and force of determination and even on the powers as embedded in their offerings of faith, hope and lov. Then there are the unspoken tenets of zeal, power and spirit of the inner being of people’s Will.
Nevertheless, souls can be humiliated, overpowered, subdued and dominated if they are not fed on the good seeds of the Fruits of Righteousness of God.
You will discover that there are many levels or strengths in souls when the eyes of your understanding is enlightened but you must accept through wisdom of God and according to the Scriptures, the true nature of the heart of a man can be revealed even in the seventh realms of its obedience of faith in God.
There are many questions that baffles even the mind of great and intelligent people. Some may sound trivial, and these may not find any tangible relevance in the matters, subjects and affairs of people’s lives. But there is a particular real question any wise person can and must ask if he or she wants to remain supernatural and grow in its realms, dimensions and anointings.
And this question- *What is embedded in my Soul?* can not be brushed off. Could what is embedded in your soul be good or bad? And how would you know. Is it Light or Darkness? is it Salt or Confusuon, Love, Faith and/or Hope?There are available answers.
In this world and through human relationships, there are many questions about how people behave, and even act and react to annoyance, provocation and emotional disturbances and even irritations.
Then you will find that some underlying human thoughts and actions of human reasoning are fundamentally flawed and so bad, negative and socially non-progressive to the extent that you would want to know why, how and what happened to their psychology and emotional stability.
I found out that whether in a developed or less developed society whivh may even be with low structures and systems of human habitations and groupings, it is quite common to identify and observe certain people with many issues of life from their emotional instabilities, greed and vulnerable and untruthful characters.
And if you want to objectively find the right Psychology, Tradition, Customs, Attitude and even the appropriate Belief, Mentoring and Support systems for them; beneath the physical manifestations of long-built behaviours and attitudes, then please do ask serous questions about their soul and what influences it.
Where were you born, how did your parents relate in their marriage, treat you and your famil are all relevant questions if you want genuine answers. Some people are even raped by their parents and cousins and their psychological issues translate into many adversities and behavioural incompetence in their thoughts, actions, relationships and marriages, and so on.
Where did you attend school, who did you Date and how did he or she influence your characters before your recent engagements are all important parameters and factors to give attention to. Where did your spouse- he or she attend school, who were and are the friends, colleagues, family and associations?
How do you react to life’s challenges, issues, problems, brokenness and unfulfillment, and in very serious cunning and crafty exhibitions of unfathomable and negative vibes, thoughts and actions, one surely must ask this question –
Under what circumstances were you or your spouse – he or she born? There are many other questions to answer.
Currently I am blessed to be supporting to counsel a young person who was born outside wedlock but worse off, encapsulated in a psychological trauma of lies from the mother, an abusive husband, work related challenges, not enjoying sex life with the spouse, having financial issues coupled with the misery of a situation of how her mother who slept with another man whiles in her marriage to give birth to her might even be interested in her husband. Mysteries exist indeed.
In the context of societal acceptance of right social norms over whether good, seemingly good or bad in shape, kind, form of human reasoning and character can be accepted, and/or in compliance of natural, family and national laws, orders and standards, many people have had their own say based on their experiences, encounters, interactions, marriages, ministries, families and even joys or troubles in life.
How were you born and what was, and what is embedded in the natures, character snd anointings of your soul when you were born.
Who named you and who lead you to marry or received your bride awards? Was the marriage properly prepared, well structured and knitted together according to sound and proper divine, family, traditional and governmental standards and laws all contribute to affect what can be embedded in your soul.
Can you be called Lucky and/or Blessed?
Why call me by another man’s name when I have mine?, he fumed at this woman who had mistaken him for another person. That was Mr Ferinko who hates being assigned another man’s identity – name. And worse off is his cousin who can get so annoyed that he could not be identified on his qualifications and attributes especially in the public space, that his screaming alone will conclusively affirm to anyone how uncouth he is and can be.
I learnt to take caution when addressing people. Secondly, I took precautionary notes when I want to understand why certain people get things easy or easily done for them until I met a young man, a few years ago, who had a covenant of favour sealed upon him by grace of the prophetics. And by these, he could get anything he desires without struggling or struggles. So, I set out more to these easy way of living in this world (Rom 8 vs 28, Prov 16 vs 33, Eccle 9 vs 11).
To fully begin to the path to discovery, let us go back to the theme of my earlier Monologue: Are you Lucky and/or Blessed? And in attempting to answer professionally, please be careful to consider even the parameters of the influence and impact of the offerings, actions and deeds of yourself, your family, your progeny, your neighbours and your generations.
And even, for any person at hundred (100) years old, how can he or she know and ascertain whether the effect of his or her present state and status is due to the behaviour and commitment of the preceding ancestors or by him/her. Indeed many people err in life and therefore leave behind the implications and consequences of their actions; the very reason why some do or try to do penance for their sins. So, errors still continue in the current dispensations and times.
At various places, people are said to be Lucky and/or Blessed in life mainly because they had or have overcome so much confrontations, troubles, problems, challenges, issues and liabilities. And to an extent that their victory over such limitations of life become a mystery, a testimony and even a miracle to others (James 1 vs 17, Eph 1 vs 11).
So in wondrous appreciation of the happenings of wierd changing into pleasant, and unpalatable escaping into favourable conditions, statuses and reigns for the previously less privileged persons, people often call them out as blessed and often expressed it as – you are lucky, or ‘you are blessed’ when they can not understand the reason for the dividends of what I call – “the blessings of divine grace and favour through mercy” (Ps 36 vs 5, Isa 45 vs 8, Job 35 vs 5)
Life is a mystery indeed in which mercy, grace and pardon rules in all its realms just as much as life in itself is also a battle of the gods; whereby the battle is the LORD’s and the battle is always won by the LORD God Almighty when earth partners with heaven through man.
There are questions to be answered. But many people may not ask. If you have an idea, can you please explain to me why some people get so depraved, wasted and devalued in many ways and means but yet, they eventually get recovered, restored and restituted to rule and govern others. What accounts for such human or life outcomes?
And this is even more mysterious. Against all odds, some people make it to their divine destinations of purpose, assignments and even to the missions of their marriage, relationship, family, destinies and so on whiles others do not. Why?
In this universe, souls persons and birds all can fly at allocated cloud levels if they can fly at all on what is divinely and inherently written on and about them by the seal of God on their spirit, soul and body. But basically, we all float, glide and flap on and within the four (4) main types of clouds in the universe namely: “1. High Clouds (16,500-45,000 feet), 2. Mid-level Clouds (6,500-23,000 feet), 3. Low Clouds (less than 6,500 feet), and 4. Special Clouds” -sourced from Google.
However, I found out by inspiration that there is yet a fifth cloud level called the Heavenly Cloud, aka Destiny Cloud level wherein one receives grace (Exo 31 vs 1-5), as well as anointings with their
divine enablements for faith, power, wisdom, protection, provisions, hope, love, understanding, intervention, peace, preservation and even safety in order for one to survive, grow, thrive and flourish in ambitions, businesses and cares within ministries, money and marriage affairs. Such persons do uncommon things; they surmount challenges, crush oppositions, rule on principalities and powers, manage systems and structures and lead peoples. Any such person will be often called or termed as being blessed or often put simply; ‘you are lucky’.
But by our conscience, most people also believe that there are often obvious and even unspoken ans sometimes unfathomable underlying and underlisted reasons, prayers, confessions and declarations, signs and tokens, deeds, covenants and decrees, speakings, sayings and utterances, gestures maneuvers and movements, and the likes that must comply with the supernatural instructions for such positive happenings to occur.
I can continue to postulate many theories and concepts. Nevertheless, the real question is this- are you in this category of being lucky and/or blessed? Or are you hoping to enjoy its benefits with its due and kind regards to the benefactors. So, if you seek or expect to be called Blessed or Lucky, then please do the needful on the requirements in the physical and spiritual realms.
Please engage your tablet of fellowship, prayers, communication, love, understanding, interventional skills, and your pinions of faith. Gather your momentum of hope and obey mandate instructions as you keep the laws of life. Then you can fly to your cloud level. But above all, remember that someone else, in your gatherings, family, neighbourhood, office, marketplace, church, mosque, community, organization, is dearly counting on your breakthroughs, achievements and excellencies for their own aspirations and hope of success to be blissful….. *to be cont’d*
– Charles Kwamena Ackon