There are rules and regulations for sound social harmony, behaviour and habitations, whereby respect and honour for the virtuous woman is of order and must be extolled and highly esteemed and celebrated. 

This, I believe. Because, I found out that there are many odds in the societies out there, who have people and things that live and parade themselves as ‘evens’ but in character and grace, they are often ‘odds’ and envious, dangerous and destructive if their minds are not renewed and reformed to righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Ghost. 

In many relationships, during the courtship process, and in some marriages, all forms of cheating do occur. I shall, therefore, concentrate on talking about marital infidelity in this monologue.

Married men who cheat and married women who cheat share many characteristics in common and in contrast. The fact that this behavior is illogical, inappropriate, socially unacceptable, morally disgusting, marital abuse-prone, Scripturally immoral, dishonest, and untrustworthy is, however, an unavoidable fact and truth.

Not only married men frequently face this challenging circumstance. Contrarily, a lot of married women struggle with infidelity and other comparable problems. And it does not always depend on what she is not getting from the spouse or partner.

Some people even maintain the firm belief that some women can craftily  and cunningly trigger a man’s sexual arousal,  inclinations and feeling through their actions, movements, and manifestations of the body, spirit, and soul so as to dispossess their fellow woman of their rightly and divinely allocated blessings of a spouse.

And, some of these revelations are primarily, some of the causes and reasons why certain men, who lack self-control, are then driven by immoral passion, have bad desires and manners, are greedy, and so on, do cheat. However, it is also commonly known that some married women do commit adultery  or cheat. And interestingl, they often defend themselves by claiming that there are multiple factors for their infidelity.

I seriously solicited the opinions of several ages and types of married women, and discovered that the following are the main causes for which married women cheat on their spouses:

1. A communication gap

2. Physical abuse,

3. Physical violence,

4. Inattention

5. Showing the woman no respect

6. Insufficient gratitude, praise, and attention 

7. Inadequate physical contact, lack of friendly communication, and lack of romance prior to sex

8. Challenges, matters and issues related to low amount of free-cash of money, resources and capital 

9. Showing love without pretense 

10. Marriages in the spirit, aka Demonic Spiritual Marriage that causes her to have less or no interest in her spouse. 

11. Marriage expectations that are too high,

12. Denigrating in-laws and relatives of one’s spouse 

13. A partner who spends more time apart on the fields, grounds and work. 

14. Societal pressure, Demands and exceeding one’s means, income and energies.

15. Wrong and bad attitudes and tendencies towards other people, tribes, languages and race.

16. HPDs, and Sexual exploits by psychopaths, and so forth.

Interestingly, I do recall that there were a number of mentioned considerations as well as extra,and more specific personal points and factors that prompted more inquiries in my research.

What will a wife, without sound morals, do if another man with better qualities of personality and wealth, presents better forms of all of the aforementioned traits and offerings, while her spouse is having these personalities, behaviors and characters in bad shapes  forms and styles?

The decision, according to many people, will be influenced by and subject to a variety of other factors that were mentioned. But, this must not be. A virtue woman found in a wife personality is someone who exhibits christlike behavior and actions, and deeds such as is described in Proverbs 31 and Psalms 126. But, these precious women of greatness are not easy to find. 

These days, and especially in certain cultures and peoples, I hear that the majority of married women who have no fear of God, do offer sex to others, at the least provocation or attraction as they go ahead later to sadly manifest sexually acquired spiritual problems and issues, as well as poor moral characters, and histories of sexual abuse and disorders. 

They will offer awful justifications for leaving their spouses and husbands so as to cheat with other men. They are stable partners for relationships nor marriage and definitely can not be trusted with greatness of faith, wisdom and strength if you want to demonstrate the power of God in man to rule and take dominion. Pray

– Charles Kwamena Ackon

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