Hello my dear friends, and readers,
Do you want and/or need a good-to-great marriage? Then, please follow me on this article.
I welcome you to read this article to the end of its relevance, and I believe you will earn the respect and admiration of having the notes for developing a good-to-great marriage, if you desire one.
Great marriages are built on a variety of influencing persons, beliefs, wisdom, knowledge, factors, behaviors, characters, personalities, things, ideas and thoughts, happenings, and so forth, especially when love, respect and order of Godliness, tradition and an intent for family, inheritance and heritage is at the center of its value and creation.
However, I discovered that in the interactive, romantic and marital undertakings, the amount, level, maturity and greatness of the grace, anointing, and uprightness of the Person and of the marriage itself, especially as embedded on the below stated elements and tenets, are all insured by submission, discernment and love, in order to relate to the dynamics of spousal beauty, livelihood, sustenance, prosperity, attraction, traditions and peace in every particular marriage.
These dynamics and factors include:
1. Love, Respect and Obedience
2. Communication and information
3. Sincerity, Honesty, and Truthfulness
4. Commitment, Loyalty and Offerings
5. Patience and Endurance within Time Processes and Procedures
6. Access to wisdom resources, financial openings and blessings, and mental agilities and tranquility.
7. The genuineness of the spouses’ feelings and affection, as well as God’s reassurances of health, vitality, safety, fairness and rest in their souls.
8. The family’s purpose, mission and vision of the love affair, of the marriage and of the family as created.
9. The exact details and statuses of the Love services, offerings and packages, and how these streamline their consistent-to-abundant and overflowing provision, protection and preservation, and other blessings as commanded, commandeered and insured by God’s grace when you pray and fellowship with your spouse and family.
10. And, through the strength and wisdom of God at work in people’s hearts as aligned and connected to you, and your marriage, family and destiny, you can attract goodness, faithfulness, mercy and kindness, and so on.
And, referring to my previous writings on marriage on this blog as well as in my books, newsletters, and articles, I would like to add that all marriages with terrible ideas, old – fashioned, and colloquial ways of doing things, as well as traditional mindsets of essences, respect, and rewards, always plan to methodologically put too much pressure and stress on the love story and even on the husband, wife, children, and dependents as well as on the marriage union itself.
Any marriage that has and builds respect, and deny itself of immediate self gratification for common good and collective responsibility often thrives into generational blessings.
And, that respect can be obtained, influenced, and formed by the thoughts, behaviors and deeds of the spouses and members of the family. And in that marriage, that respect must and can be acquired, embedded, and generated by the couple’s ideas, deeds, and behaviors as well as by the decision and character management of their personalities, union, intentions, works and prayers.
I found out that a morally upright and virtue-filled wife encourages growth, multiplication, and expansion. Just as simply having a husband with, sound mind, sincere and truthful nature, and the privilege of God’s grace and anointing can offer platforms and secure provisions, safety, rest, and assurances of gifts of peace, preservation kindness, love, and offerings of perseverance, joy, and happiness for his family.
Therefore, why abuse, insult, or even beat your spouse when he or she could pleasantly surprise you with greater love, care, and prayer? Why fight against bad parents or in-laws when you can baptize them in the love of God by and through the power and wisdom of God?
Keep in mind that Faith operates in the area of the Ministry of Love and of its offices of Destiny with the Opportunities of Claim of Ministry, Marriage, and Money in which the principles of wisdom necessary for one’s health and wellbeing and significance are in the revelations and knowledge of secrets, mysteries, and covenants.
Thus, in order to enjoy the devotion of life via marriage, one must recognize, be aware of, and comprehend the elements, traits, and requirements of a godly good, blessed, and lovely marriage.
What role does marriage play in the operation of this lifelong commitment to life itself ? (Acts 2 vs 42-47). Among other things, it is related by:
1. Relationship, Tradition, Customs, Attitude, Skill, Behaviours, and Traits
2. A forum dedicated to teaching, learning, and fellowships
3. Sharing meals, being kind to one another, and loving
4. Prayers, Confessions, Acts of Service, and Giving
5. Worship, Love, and Hope, and so on.
But in order to ensure all of these things and more, you must also ensure your marriage-dedicated allegiance through one’s spiritual warfare channels:
1. Decisions, Determinations and Prayers of the spouses individually or collectively and by the family.
2. Through praise, respect and admiration, and celebration, in the name of Jesus Christ
3. By one’s confessions made in accordance with the authority of the Blood of Jesus Christ;
4. By the word of the LORD’s Command
5. By the testimonies of one’s victories
6. Through your cheerful shouts of praises
7. By using the Key of David to open locked doors and handle challenges
8. By applications of God’s mercy, grace and kindness of blessings and protection
9. Using the Holy Ghost’s power and authority.
10. By using your fruits of your harvest, as in verses 6 and 7 of Galatians 6.
But, do not minimize the worth of yours or someone’s marriage, no matter what happens. To redeem and keep it, call for wisdom, cooperation, resources, understanding, closeness and trust whiles spiritually, you use the blood of Jesus to seal the gate, doors and windows of the marriage union. Then, use your ingredients of SEVTS – Serviceability, Education, Virtues, Trade and Sex, and as you watch and control your temper and any selfish interests you may have. Speak to it. Declare on it. Activate its virtues, grace, and anointing.
And with all that can comes against your marriage; be it humans, plus evil spirits, demons and even other bloodless entities that focus on its greatness, offerings, sacrifices, children, wealth, purpose, meaning, blessings, favour, fruitfulness, increase, upgrade, and graces and anointing.
It needs to be experienced to understand that Marriage is a gift of God for a man – Husband, to find, admire and love her provision, protection and preservation of the wife and children, just as much as it is for a woman – the wife, to serve, care for, enjoy and manage its ingredients, fruits, glory, honour, services and home.
So, if you have a sound morally enticing marriage, please hold onto it and develop it; for someone else needs your presence, experience and story to find and grow his or her aspirations on marriage. Pray!
– Charles Kwamena Ackon